When a marriage ends, the decisions made in the following months shape the rest of your life. Compass Mediation Group gives you a better path — one built on clarity, respect, and resolution rather than courtrooms and conflict. Virtual sessions available nationwide.
When a marriage ends, the decisions made in the following months shape the rest of your life. Compass Mediation Group gives you a better path — one built on clarity, respect, and resolution rather than courtrooms and conflict. Virtual sessions available nationwide.
When a marriage ends, the decisions made in the following months shape the rest of your life. Compass Mediation Group gives you a better path — one built on clarity, respect, and resolution rather than courtrooms and conflict. Virtual sessions available nationwide.
Alisa Kharis, JD
Founder & Lead Mediator
With 25+ years of mediation experience and education, a Juris Doctorate from Seattle University School of Law, 16 years as a former practicing attorney (1996–2012) in Washington state courts, Master Mediator certification from the International Mediation Association (IMA), and a deep commitment to helping people resolve conflict with dignity, Alisa Kharis founded Compass Mediation Group on a simple belief: there is a better way to work through life's most difficult transitions.

A Career Built on Helping People Navigate Complex Situations
Alisa's professional journey has been defined by one consistent thread — guiding people through challenging moments with clarity, fairness, and compassion.
Legal Foundation: 16 Years in Washington State Courts (1996–2012)
Alisa began her legal career after earning her Juris Doctorate from Seattle University School of Law in 1995. She also holds a B.A. in Political Science, Cum Laude, from Washington State University (1987).
From 1996 to 2012, she served as an attorney at the Law Office of Alisa Maples and Maples-Lane PLLC, where she spent 16 years handling trial and motions practice across King, Pierce, Kitsap, Whatcom, and Grays Harbor counties. Her general practice encompassed:
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Family Law — Divorce, child custody, parenting plans, and support
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Criminal Law — Criminal defense representation
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Civil Litigation — Disputes, personal injury, and trial practice
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Business Law — Formation, contracts, partnerships, and disputes
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Entertainment Law — Contracts and intellectual property matters
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Administrative Hearings — Government agency proceedings
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During her 16 years of courtroom practice, Alisa witnessed firsthand the toll that adversarial litigation takes on families — emotionally, financially, and relationally. She saw couples who entered the legal system hoping for resolution leave it feeling depleted and divided. She saw children caught in the crossfire of courtroom battles that could have been avoided. She saw business partnerships destroyed by litigation that could have been resolved through dialogue.
These experiences shaped a conviction that would define the next chapter of her career: that for most families and businesses, there is a path to resolution that does not require a courtroom.
25+ Years of Mediation Experience and Education
Alisa's mediation journey spans over two and a half decades — beginning during her years as a former practicing attorney, where she facilitated settlements and negotiations, and deepening through formal mediation training and dedicated practice. She completed 40-hour mediation training programs in Aberdeen, WA in both 2016 and 2020, and in 2021 earned her Master Mediator certification from the International Mediation Association (IMA) through a rigorous year-long training program in Phoenix, AZ — the highest level of professional recognition in the mediation field.
The Founding of Compass Mediation Group
In 2017, Alisa formally established her mediation practice as Blend Mediation, later rebranded to Compass Mediation Group. The practice operates under Synergy Relations, Alisa's umbrella company founded in 2003 that also encompasses consultation, public relations, strategic communications, event planning, video production, graphic design, and marketing services.
She built the practice on the principle that skilled, compassionate mediation can achieve better outcomes than litigation — faster, at lower cost, and with far less emotional damage. Over the years, the practice has grown into a trusted mediation resource serving clients across Washington, Oregon, California, Arizona, and nationwide through virtual sessions.
The rebrand to Compass Mediation Group reflects the practice's evolution and its mission: to help clients find their direction through conflict and emerge with clarity and confidence.
Education
Juris Doctorate — Seattle University School of Law (1995)
Alisa earned her law degree from Seattle University School of Law, one of the Pacific Northwest's most respected legal institutions. Her legal education provided a rigorous foundation in family law, dispute resolution, negotiation, civil litigation, and legal ethics — skills she applies daily in her mediation practice.
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B.A. Political Science, Cum Laude — Washington State University (1987)
Alisa graduated Cum Laude from Washington State University with a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science, developing strong analytical, research, and communication skills that have served as the bedrock of her professional career.​
Credentials & Qualifications
Alisa brings an exceptional combination of credentials that set her apart in the mediation field:
Master Mediator — International Mediation Association (IMA), 2021
Alisa holds the Master Mediator designation from the International Mediation Association (IMA), earned through a rigorous year-long training program in Phoenix, AZ. This is the highest level of professional certification available in the mediation field, reflecting advanced training in conflict resolution, negotiation strategy, facilitation techniques, and ethical standards — as well as extensive practical experience mediating complex disputes.
It is worth noting that the mediation field is largely unregulated — there are no formal educational requirements to practice as a mediator beyond basic continuing education in most jurisdictions, and virtually anyone can call themselves a mediator. This makes voluntary, rigorous credentialing like the IMA Master Mediator designation especially meaningful. Alisa pursued this certification not because it was required, but because she believes her clients deserve the highest standard of professional training and accountability.
Juris Doctorate — Seattle University School of Law (1995)
Alisa earned her law degree from Seattle University School of Law in 1995, one of the Pacific Northwest's most respected legal institutions. Her legal education provides the foundation for understanding the legal frameworks that surround divorce, custody, property division, and business disputes — ensuring that mediated agreements are not only fair but also legally sound.
B.A. Political Science, Cum Laude — Washington State University (1987)
Alisa graduated Cum Laude from Washington State University with a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science, building the analytical, research, and critical thinking skills that have underpinned her entire professional career.
IRS Enrolled Agent (2022, with Oregon License)
Alisa is a federally licensed IRS Enrolled Agent, authorized to represent taxpayers before the Internal Revenue Service. She earned this credential in 2022 and also holds an Oregon license. This credential is particularly valuable in divorce and business mediation, where tax implications can significantly affect financial settlements. Understanding how asset division, spousal support, and retirement account distribution are taxed allows Alisa to help clients make fully informed financial decisions. She also applies her Enrolled Agent expertise at H&R Block, where she has served since 2021 — keeping her tax knowledge sharp and current.
40-Hour Mediation Training — Aberdeen, WA (2016 & 2020)
Alisa completed comprehensive 40-hour mediation training programs in Aberdeen, WA in both 2016 and 2020, supplementing her IMA training and decades of practical experience with structured education in mediation methodology, techniques, and best practices.
Business Leadership and Entrepreneurial Experience
Alisa is not just a mediator and attorney — she is also a seasoned entrepreneur and business owner, giving her a practical perspective that most mediators lack:
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Synergy Relations (2003–Present) — Umbrella Company
Founded in 2003, Synergy Relations is Alisa's umbrella company encompassing consultation, public relations, strategic communications, event planning, video production, graphic design, and marketing services. Over two decades of business ownership gives Alisa firsthand understanding of the operational, financial, and interpersonal challenges that business owners face — insight she brings directly to her business mediation practice.
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Compass Tax Center — Sister Company
Compass Tax Center, a sister company to Compass Mediation Group, reflects Alisa's IRS Enrolled Agent expertise and offers professional tax services. This dual practice ensures she stays current on tax law and financial regulations that frequently impact mediation outcomes.
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Business Development Director, MXTReality (2017–2019)
Alisa served as Business Development Director for MXTReality, a company specializing in augmented reality and virtual reality products, further demonstrating her range of business acumen and strategic leadership.
Community Involvement and Notable Achievements
Alisa's commitment to justice, advocacy, and community service extends well beyond her mediation practice:
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Founding Board Member, Justice Watch (2000) — Helped establish an organization dedicated to the defense of wrongfully convicted individuals
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Candidate Evaluator, King County Municipal League (2001) — Evaluated judicial and legislative candidates to inform voters and strengthen the democratic process
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Ethiopian War Victims Fund (1998/1999) — Organized and executed a fundraiser that raised 3x the original goal, demonstrating her passion for humanitarian causes and her ability to mobilize communities
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Public Relations Coordinator, Community Legal Services (1998) — Provided public relations support for a community legal aid organization, connecting underserved populations with legal resources
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Produced video evidence for Lewandowski v. Fairway Ornamental Iron (2000) — Contributed to a case that resulted in a $1M+ settlement, showcasing her creative and strategic approach to legal advocacy
BREAKTHROUGH TODAY Podcast
Alisa is the host of the BREAKTHROUGH TODAY podcast, where she shares practical insights drawn from her 25+ years of mediation experience, her legal career, and her diverse professional background. BREAKTHROUGH TODAY explores conflict resolution strategies, personal growth, and the tools people need to navigate life's most challenging transitions — from divorce and family conflict to business disputes and career pivots.
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Areas of Expertise
Alisa mediates across four core practice areas, bringing specialized knowledge to each:
Divorce Mediation
Drawing on her 16 years of family law practice in Washington courts and her IRS Enrolled Agent credential, Alisa helps couples navigate property division, child custody, parenting plans, spousal support, and debt allocation. She understands the legal requirements across multiple states and ensures agreements meet court standards for approval — while also helping clients understand the tax consequences of their financial decisions.
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Family Mediation
Family disputes extend well beyond divorce. Alisa mediates parenting plan modifications, elder care decisions, guardianship disagreements, blended family conflicts, and sibling disputes. Her approach prioritizes preserving family relationships while achieving fair outcomes.
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Business Mediation
Alisa's combination of legal knowledge, IRS Enrolled Agent credential, and 20+ years of business ownership through Synergy Relations makes her uniquely qualified to mediate partnership disputes, shareholder conflicts, contract disagreements, employment issues, and business dissolution. She understands financial statements, operational realities, and the importance of protecting both the business and the relationships involved.
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Estate Mediation
Will contests, trust disputes, beneficiary conflicts, and executor disagreements are among the most emotionally charged disputes Alisa handles. Her understanding of tax law as an Enrolled Agent and her sensitivity to family dynamics help families reach fair resolutions while honoring their loved one's legacy.
Mediation Philosophy
Alisa's approach to mediation is grounded in several core principles:
Every person deserves to be heard. Mediation only works when both parties feel genuinely listened to. Alisa creates space for each person to express their concerns, fears, and priorities — fully and without interruption.
Fairness is non-negotiable. As a neutral mediator, Alisa does not take sides. She ensures the process is balanced, that both parties have access to the same information, and that agreements reflect the genuine interests of everyone involved.
Knowledge empowers better decisions. Whether it is understanding the tax consequences of dividing a retirement account, knowing how a parenting plan will function in practice, or seeing how a business dissolution affects future obligations, Alisa equips her clients with the information they need to make confident choices. Her JD, Master Mediator (IMA) training, and IRS Enrolled Agent credential ensure that knowledge is grounded in real expertise, not guesswork.
Resolution should not come at the cost of dignity. The legal system often forces people into adversarial roles. After witnessing this for 16 years in Washington courtrooms, Alisa committed her career to mediation as an alternative where people can disagree respectfully, negotiate honestly, and walk away with their dignity intact.
The goal is not just an agreement — it is a workable future. Alisa focuses on crafting agreements that are not only legally sound but genuinely sustainable in the months and years ahead.
Virtual Mediation: Accessible Nationwide
All sessions with Alisa are conducted via secure video conferencing from her base in the Seattle, WA metro area. Virtual mediation removes geographic barriers and offers significant practical advantages:
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Participate from home — No travel, no waiting rooms, no time away from work or family
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Reduced emotional stress — Being in a familiar, comfortable environment helps clients stay calm and focused
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Flexible scheduling — Virtual sessions are easier to schedule around busy lives
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Nationwide availability — Whether you are in Seattle, Los Angeles, Phoenix, Portland, San Diego, or anywhere else in the country, you can access Alisa's expertise
What Clients Can Expect
When you work with Alisa Kharis, you are not passed off to an associate or a junior mediator. Alisa personally handles every case from the first consultation to the final signed agreement. You get:
Consistency
One experienced professional who knows your case inside and out
Responsiveness
Direct communication between sessions when you have questions
Expertise
A JD from Seattle University School of Law, Master Mediator (IMA) certification, IRS Enrolled Agent credential, and 25+ years of mediation experience working together
Compassion
A mediator who has spent her career helping people navigate difficult chapters — and who takes that responsibility personally
Schedule a Conversation with Alisa
The first step is simple: a free, confidential consultation where you can share your situation, ask questions, and learn whether mediation is the right path for you. There is no pressure and no obligation — just a genuine conversation about your options.
Or call directly at (888) 851-8856.
Important Note: Mediation Is Not Legal Representation
Compass Mediation Group does not provide legal advice or legal representation. While Alisa Kharis holds a Juris Doctorate and previously practiced law for 16 years (1996–2012), she is exclusively a mediator and does not act as an attorney for any party. Her legal background informs and enriches the mediation process, giving her a deep understanding of the legal landscape — but she does not practice law. Clients are encouraged to consult with independent attorneys for legal counsel. Alisa is happy to refer clients seeking legal representation to qualified attorneys.
