About Compass Mediation Group

A Practice Built on Experience, Guided by Compassion

Compass Mediation Group was founded by Alisa Kharis, JD, with a clear purpose: to give people a better way to resolve disputes — one that preserves dignity, protects relationships, and avoids the financial and emotional toll of litigation.

What started as a conviction forged during 16 years of courtroom practice has grown into a trusted, nationwide mediation practice. With 25+ years of mediation experience and education, Alisa has guided individuals, families, and business owners through some of the most difficult conversations of their lives — divorce, custody, business dissolution, estate disagreements, and more.

Alisa Kharis
Meet Alisa Kharis

Founder & Lead Mediator

Alisa Kharis is the founder and sole mediator at Compass Mediation Group. Her career includes 16 years of practicing law (1996–2012), 25+ years of mediation experience, and over two decades of business ownership — a combination that gives her an unusually deep perspective on the disputes she helps resolve.

Every session is led personally by Alisa. This is not a firm that hands you off to a junior associate or rotates through staff — you work directly with a mediator who earned her Juris Doctorate from Seattle University School of Law and practiced law for 16 years across Washington state courts.

Alisa's background as an IRS Enrolled Agent is particularly valuable for clients navigating financially complex mediations. Whether the dispute involves dividing marital assets, restructuring a business partnership, or resolving inheritance disagreements, she understands the tax consequences and financial nuances that many mediators simply do not.

A Personal Note from Alisa

I started Compass Mediation Group because I saw too many people going through divorce, family conflict, and business disputes being told that the only option was to fight it out in court. After 16 years practicing law in courtrooms across Washington — in King County, Pierce County, Kitsap County, and beyond — I knew that was rarely true, and it was almost never the best option. Mediation gives people the chance to make their own decisions, on their own terms, with guidance from someone who understands both the legal and human sides of what they are going through.

Every case I take on matters to me personally. I know that the people sitting in my sessions are going through one of the hardest chapters of their lives, and I take that responsibility seriously. My goal is always the same: to help you find a resolution that is fair, that you understand, and that lets you move forward.

— Alisa Kharis, JD, Founder, Compass Mediation Group

Our story

The Compass Mediation Group Story

Compass Mediation Group — originally established as Blend Mediation in 2017 — was born from Alisa's firsthand observation that the adversarial legal system often made conflict worse, not better. During her 16 years practicing law at the Law Office of Alisa Maples and Maples-Lane PLLC, she saw families enter the court system and come out more damaged than when they began.

What struck Alisa most was a fundamental disconnect: courts traditionally require mediation before parties can proceed to trial — meaning most people end up mediating anyway, but only after months of adversarial proceedings, mounting legal fees, and escalating emotional damage. It was far more efficient to start with mediation from the beginning. She committed to building a practice that makes mediation more accessible and user-friendly for people who are already in crisis — before the court system compounds their stress.

Mediation offered a better path: a structured, neutral process where both parties could be heard, where solutions could be crafted collaboratively, and where the goal was agreement — not victory.

Over the years, the practice expanded from local cases in the Pacific Northwest to serving clients virtually across the entire United States. The rebrand from Blend Mediation to Compass Mediation Group reflected the practice's evolution — the name representing guidance, direction, and helping people find their way through difficult transitions.

Today, Compass Mediation Group offers divorce, family, business, and estate mediation, with every session conducted via secure video conferencing, so geography is never a barrier to quality mediation.

Alisa's Mediation Philosophy

Built on several core principles:

Neutrality without detachment

A mediator must be impartial — but that does not mean cold or disengaged. Alisa brings genuine empathy to every session while maintaining the neutrality that makes mediation work.

Everyone is heard

A structured, neutral process where both parties have space to be heard and understood.

Agreement, not victory

Solutions are crafted collaboratively, with the goal of a lasting agreement rather than a winner and a loser.

The Power of Effective Communication
Is to Resolve a Conflict.

Important Note:

Compass Mediation Group does not provide legal advice or legal representation. Alisa Kharis is a mediator, not a practicing attorney. Her legal background informs and enriches the mediation process, but she does not act as an attorney for any party. Both partners are encouraged to consult with independent attorneys for legal counsel. If you need legal representation, we are happy to refer you to qualified attorneys.